I applaud and support free expression on both sides of this argument and claim no knowledge of the actual circumstances in the communications. However, I'd like to make clear that, as a person of color born in South Africa during apartheid, and hence sensitive to such issues, I have found JJ Virgin to be loving, supportive, not racist in our relationship (or with other people of color around her), always open to conversation, and very invested in her work, consolidating the community that came to her. In fact, the Mindshare community has been fun, very supportive and welcoming. While I am no stranger to racial inequities and injustice, my opinion is that the hostility inherent in communications about race is not a solution. Oversimplifying bias is tempting, but the issue is complex, situationally diverse, and multifactorial. Psychologically, we stand in relation to one another with an opportunity to inspire one another and the world—to shine a light….and to illuminate the darkness with love and tenderness. I wonder if we might seek a solution to these problems in a way that does not involve expressing personal aggression under the guise of social justice, taking others down when we could be lifting one another up to heights above our pain. I wonder what would happen if the solution resided in also contemplating the illusions of our separation. If we could celebrate the victories of those we wish to be close to, perhaps we will be victorious ourselves. As pointless as I believe these dark derisions to be, in these sentiments, I do not seek agreement or disagreement, but extend my hand and heart to all who wish to join. To JJ, I say: I stand by you. And for me, Mindshare has been a door to a plethora of magical and transformative relationships.